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Should I forgive, forget, fight och fuck it?
I have this friend...Or I wouldn't call her a friend anymore..and we have had this hudge fight. All because of a guy! Fredrik is his name. He is my friends friend. I liked him, asked my friend if it was okay for me to go out with him. She said she was totally okay with it. But it turned out she liked him too. She didn't tell me though. I found though text messages on Fredriks cellphone. I got so mad. Mostly because she didn't tell me and giving me a hard time when going out with him. She was always the third wheel. It was so annoying!
Then there was this one time she got reallt mad for me hooking up with him, I didn't get why. I did ask her if it was because she likes him, because then I would back off, but she said no. So I keept on seeing him. She didn't like it. I dumped him though when I found out that it was something between them.
Now, she is the one who is mad at me! And it's because I was mad at her.. We had alot of other unfinnished buisness so I told her everything about why I angry at her. I wanted to clear everything between us so we can be friends again..But she got even agrgier and now she won't speak to me. And she is telling Fredrik lies about me..I don'tcare about him anymore. But my friend and me where best friends before Fredrik came into our lives..
What should I do? Sould I try o talk to her again? Or wait til she comes to me?
Please help!
Thank you!
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OMG! Same thing happens to me all the time. I always get in spats about guys with my friends. Whoever you feel more strongly about I would keep. I would just talk to her and ask her what the hell is going on. Tell her how you feel about the guy and then she should back off. That's what usually works for me and I'm still able to keep the friend. After you could help her by fixing her up with a guy. Then I would suggest double-dating. Hope I helped.
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