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How can I spice things up?
I have been going with a really great guy for the last few months. He's 29, I'm 33. He was a virgin when we met, but no longer is. He's really great in bed, (he's come a long way), but I'm wondering what I can do to help him along a little bit more. He's open to trying new things, and when we do, it just doesn't work out, because he can't catch on for whatever reason. He tries very hard, but it's getting frustrating. I'm also trying to figure out how to make things more romantic. He doesn't understand how important foreplay is. We kiss for just a few minutes, and he thinks it is time to just go for it, then a half hour later, we're done, and that's it. How can I make him understand that romance and foreplay can be just as much fun? What kind of things can I do to make him realize it's just as much fun, if not better than just having straight sex. What kind of things can you suggest that are really romantic, and will keep him in the mood all night??
Thanks.
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Hi
Unfortunately romance is something that some guys just don't have. However, I believe that to a certain degree they can learn.
If he's just experienced sex for the first time with you, then there's lots left to learn.
You could give him hints, but make sure they are not too subtle (men have trouble with those ;)
You could also try being the romancer to show him what it's like. One day when he comes home from work, have candles going, soft music, look like your hot sexy self, and romance him. Take your time...tie him up if you have too ;).
Show him what it feels like to experience foreplay, then he'll know that's something that you like. You need to show him the ropes, so he can learn from you, then take his turn and be romance initiator. Good luck.
Brenda
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