I like this boy alot and Im guessing he likes me to. We have kissed and he has told people and me that he liked me. I like him alot and I want to go out with him but I`m afraid I`ll never be able to see him, only on weekends and stuff.
I`m afraid that if we go out he will flirt and stuff with other girls sense we wont be with eachother often. I`ve known him for a while and he doesnt seem like a guy who would do that. And if he ever hurt me my brother would kick the shit out of him.
I guess I have two questions.
1)should I go out with him? and should I ask him out sense he hasnt asked me out? If I should ask him out how should I do it? if not how should I get him to ask me out?
I'm not sure of your age, but the fact is. If a guy is really into you, he WILL make time for you. It is no fun to be sitting at home hoping he will call and want to chill.
If he can't make time for you now, when will he ever be able to? Don't settle for a relationship where you feel like you under appreciated. It's not fair for him to do that to you, and it's not fair to let yourself take that. [ TattooedXRoses's advice column | Ask TattooedXRoses A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Saturday April 22 2006, 3:43 pm: I would hope that this guy likes you if he kissed you. If not, then he would be really out of line.
If you do really like him, then I'd probably go out with him. And when you find out that you both are wanting to be together, then maybe you could try discussing these fears that you have with him. Explain to him that you feel like maybe he'll flirt with other girls just because you two won't be together a lot.
You can't really make a guy ask you out. You either wait until he makes the move, or you go ahead and make it. Theres no wrong way to go, but he might be feeling the same way as you, he might be waiting to hear from you like you are from him. Maybe you could have a friend ask him and then you could find out.
goldengoodness07 answered Saturday April 22 2006, 3:36 pm: You're afraid that if you two go out, he'll talk to other girls because you don't see eachother that often. Well if you two don't go out, won't he move on to someone else that would go out with him? Hopefully that makes sense... You can't just not go out with him because you're afraid of what he might do. I think you should go out with him!! Ask him out. I'm sure he'll be very happy and surprised. =0) Um.. As for seeing him more often. You could talk to him about it. I'm sure you'll work something out!!
xoMarisox answered Saturday April 22 2006, 3:29 pm: The guy I like i don't see often, only on weekends. But we call eachother every night and talk online and stuff... it's enough for us. Here is what I say about your ?s
1) Yes, if you really do like him go out with him. Give it a chance, if you find out he's cheating on you, forget him and move on. I wouldn't ask a guy out, cause it's not really my style... if it is your style, and you have the guts to, then go for it. You could say something like, maybe we can go out this weekend or something like that, he will get the hint!
2) It's going to be hard to see eachother outside of school due to activities and stuff. Myabe you guys can go to a school sports game together, like a track meet or baseball game. Or get together and study with eachother and go to eachother's houses.
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