well i had this friend lets call her L for a long time and she really used to be my best friend untill this other girl lets call her G came along! then she became my best friend cause L left me for a nother girl lets call her S anyways and why should i be all alone then? and me and L still were friends but she started lieing to me all the time like once i had this crush on a guy named M and than L told me that M told her something about me that she cant tell me! and now 2 years later she told me she was just kidding! and then she told me a guy named H told her he loved me and that was also a lie and she told me that 2 month later! and then there is this other guy named J and L told me that he was looking at me all the time when he was looking at her and she also told me that yet and all that happend about a half year ago! and now there is this other guy named K and she told me there going out together even though she has a boyfriend and then me and K got into this big fight and everything because of that cause i thought that L was cheating on her bf and all that was also a lie! she was never together with K there not even friends! K told me that yesterday and i was sooo angry at L cause she lied to me alot anyways but that was just to much!!! and like once i had this crush on a guy named D and she told me i should call him and stuff like that i never wanted to well and i didnt vut she was like really getting on my nervs she was online and she was like: CALL HIM CALL HIM NOW!! so my question is : is she really a friend?? what should i do ignore her from now on??? G likes L and were also kinda fighting about that but the thing is that L hates G and i really dont wanna loose my best friend G cause she does like L and she dosnt like it when i tell her bad things about L! so what should i do??? i really need some advice and sorry this is so long!! I'll rate!
Additional info, added Saturday April 22 2006, 1:33 pm: oh yeah and do you think that g is a good frienD? cause she never lied to me!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? bury_me_good_and_deep answered Saturday April 22 2006, 1:30 pm: Thats not kewl. You need to get rid of L or w/e and get some honest friends. L is only doing it because she's jealous of you! She only said she wasjust kidding b/c she just wants to screw up your life. So flip out on her and leave her to rot!!
NinjaNeer answered Saturday April 22 2006, 12:33 pm: Well, it looks to me like you need new friends! Too much drama in this little group.
Real friends don't talk behind each others' backs or play mean jokes.
Here's the best thing to do; go on letting G think that L likes her still, because telling one friend that another person doesn't like them doesn't go over well.
But yes, try to distance yourself from the drama as best as you can, because it's not worth the time and effort you end up putting into it, and in the end (think 5 years from now) it won't matter at all! [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
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