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To Date or Not
14/male. me and this girl were both crushin hard on each other but we never dated it was apparent she liked me more then i did her tho.there was a little bit difference in age so we never saw each other in school. i started thinking about it and i felt mayb we werent as compatable as i thought. we were very different people. i didnt want to leed her on so i told her that i might not have the same feelings for her that i did. she was upset for a while but still likes me. now theres this other girl who i am good friends with. i think i mite be starting to like her now but im not sure. shes hung up on one asshole that has hurt her before. im fighting in my head what to do. am i to picky with to high of expecttions, or should i go with this new girl?
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well .. i think that you should just give it a little time before you go after the new girl, because, if it was me, then i would be crushed ( after knowing i had a chance with a guy who liked me, but then found another girl instead ). but you should give it a little time, be friends with the girl and tell her you only want to be friends, and after a couple weeks, then get to know the new girl and see if you would want her more. because, if she has a guy in her head from a past relationship, there is a high chance the relationship wont work out, because she isnt over the guy yet. and trust me, i know what thats like, not being over a guy, and dating a guy that was totally into me, and then crushing him because i couldnt stop thinking about a past relationship. and if you really want to be with the new girl, then let the first girl understand that the age difference wasnt going to work out, stay friends with her ( you didnt say if you already are ) and just dont change how you act and everything or act all weird if you get a girlfriend, thats the worst thing when a guy all goes and changes. well hope i helped, if you need any more questions or help feel free to ask.
-Mel.
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