hi..i'm 13..yea i kno.i'm pretty young. buh jus d other day one of my guy friendz wuz sucking me..i guess u culd probably figure out where. n he wantz 2 do it buh we r not even goin out. i want 2 do it s0 bad tho.buh i'm not sure wut 2 do.i tink i shuld wait until i get a b/f who wantz 2 do it.not sure if i culd wait.i wuz plannin on wearin d condom..buh i'm wonderin if i have more of chance of gettin pregnant if i were it or if he wearz it..which one is better? i'm scared..i need tipz on evryting..diz iz my 1st time!! help!..thanx
The female condom is more expensive and not as readily accesible, though a large pharmacy should sell them. It is larger than the male condom and has two ring. One is the opening of the condom, which would hang outside of your vagina. The other is inside the condom, which would help keep it in place.
The male condom is cheaper. It comes in many varieties, but the condom should be approved by an accediting body - and ones with spermacide offer extra protection against pregnancy. The condom rolls down the penis and stays in place.
Either condom can only be used once. The male condom is 98% effective if used perfectly, and the female condom is 95% effective. It is important you read all the instructions in the package, and practice first if neccesary.
It's good that you are thinking about protection and taking reponsibility, but it's also terrific that you are questioning if this is how you want to lose your virginity.
If you have any qualms and would rather wait until you were in a relationship, then it's probably best to follow your heart. After all, losing your virginity is a step you can never repeat, so make sure you're happy and comfortable with the who, how, and when. [ alisonmarie's advice column | Ask alisonmarie A Question ]
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