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Bleeding After Sexual Foreplay


Question Posted Tuesday April 18 2006, 12:14 pm

hey im 16 and last night me and my bf were making out and he decided to finger me hard. it hurt yet at the same time felt so good. when i got home i could still feel the sensation but it stung a little when i urinate. then i woke up this morning and found some blood on my panties and now i have to wear a pad. im kinda scared that he might of ripped something. is this normal and what should i do?

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alisonmarie answered Tuesday April 18 2006, 1:56 pm:
If he fingered you especially hard - and had any rough edges on his nails - then there's a good chance he might have caught torn the skin in your vagina. If this was your first time having this experience, he might have also torn the remainders of your hymen.

If either of the above are the cause of the bleeding, it's quite normal and won't cause any lasting damage. Because blood is involved, it's a good idea to get yourself (and boyfriend) tested if either of you has had a sexual partner in the past.

The stinging when you urinate tends to make me think you've got a tiny tear. If the bleeding gets worse or doesn't stop over the next few hours, you'll need to see a doctor. You may bleed again the next few times you do this, if you do it before the skin has a chance to heal.

Over time, you shouldn't feel any pain or discomfort when you are getting fingered. If you do, lubrication might help.

Best of luck.

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