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my love life


Question Posted Monday April 10 2006, 5:34 pm

alright this might sound immature but this was like 2 years ago ok.. me and lets say bob dated and then i broke up with him and got back together with him like maybe.. 10 times i know I was immature and really didn't know what I wanted then and my family was going through divorce so i was so confused I broke up with him for other guys i thought i liked more.. he thought i cheated on here and all that but really i didn't i just talked to them.. and bout two months ago we got back together he stayed back though and i didn't get to talk to him much and he never calls he always says if she likes me she'll call and i would never call him unless he called me atleast once! he always told people he never trust me from were i did alot of boys bad but i've change since every boy was calling me a ho and all that crap.. well he broke up with me for the first time cause he said he wasn't having any "fun". I loved that boy so much.. I swear.. =P... I think he is immature and doesn't want a "serious relationship" and for some reason I feel guilty like its all my fault for him breaking up with me.. should I be? sorry if it doesn't make since.. I'm jsut trying to get it all out..

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ShAnDi answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 3:30 pm:
it's not your fault. Your not the immature one, he is. He's not worth wasting your love on if he doesnt trust you and thinks your still the same person as you were. My advice is, you shouldn't bother with this guy and get on with your life so you can meet new people who are gonna love, trust and respect you as you will them
leave him and his immaturity behind,
Hope this helps
xshandix

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kendrabdatgirl answered Monday April 10 2006, 10:22 pm:
i dont think its your fault at all he seems immature and he doens't seem like a good enough boyfriend..and yea i see why he may not trust you because how you did other guys wrong but if that was long ago then he should get over it...dont feel guilty it's not your fault. get over him and find a new guy instead of going in a circle breakin up and then gettin back together..everytime you continue that cycle the relationship just get's worse..just move one and you will be better dont wonder is it ur fault that you're not together and dont dwell on the fact that he dumped you either..it will probly be hard to get over "bob"(lol) since you love him alot but just try cause you are only wasting your time on him..hope i helped

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