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Question Posted Sunday April 9 2006, 1:19 am

im 13 years old, and my dad died last saterday, i am having a rough time with all of this. my friends dont seem to understand. my bf broke up with me on the day of my dads funeral, and the guy that i really liked strated to go out with my best friend. my mom seems to hate me and everything is going wrong. i was seriously going to commit sucide, but the reason i didnt was because of my bofriend, but then he broke up with me. i feel terrible. i cant go to a conceler, i just dont want that. i just need adivce on how to oevrcome all of this saddness.

this is also effeting my grades. on my repartcard i made 4 F's and 1 C.


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karenR answered Sunday April 9 2006, 1:33 am:
I'm sorry to hear about your dad. Thats an awful lot to have to deal with at once.

Your mom doesn't hate you. She is sad and upset. She suddenly has to deal with a loss and a whole ton of responsibility. Give her some time, she will be okay.

That boyfriend is a real low life. I know you probably don't think that now...but you will realize it eventually. You desreve better than him.

You are probably depressed right now. That is natural. Suicide is not an answer. Talk to an adult you trust and one who will listen to you.
Friends are great to talk to but they just probably don't know what to say to you right now.
They may fear saying the wrong thing and upsetting you more. Death is a hard thing for young people to undrstand sometimes. Especuially if it isn't something they have delt with before.

Here is a website. It may help you get through everything. It will at least help you understand better what you're going through.

Best of luck.

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