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friends and boys
OK see i like this guy alot like alot alot and my friend is starting to like him and i like him before she even know he was alive and now he is starting to like her and i want to be happy for then but it is almost killing me to look at them together . i feel like crying all the time it feels like some one ripped out everything in side of me and is ripping it to shreds playing baseball,soocer,football,&baketball(volleball too)with it. and i hate it i do the fact that i was the first to like him and it is like she doesnt care who she hurts as long as she gets the guy and i want him to be happy but .............aww i dont know what to do
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Here is an idea...did you talk to her about it? I mean, if she is a true friend she should listen to you when you tell her about it. Plus, did you tell her that you liked him before she started liking him, or after...did you even tell her at all? You have to think about how she feels. Maybe she was waiting for you to ask him out, but you never did, so she went for it. Now, I'm not totaly taking her side, don't worry. But I just wanted you to look at her side of the story. If she doesn't listen to you when you talk to her about it, then she isn't a true friend. I know that it is hard to be happy for them, but that is all you can do. Don't try to split them up, because that is just wrong. There is a chance that they will split up, and you can be there to confort him, and then ask him out! Just remember that you could have done it before he or she did! You will get a guy, you have your whole life ahead of you...remember that! Your guy is out there somewhere, if not him, someone else. I hope that I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open.
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I hope you get to be happy, tell me if you get him back!
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