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Question Posted Sunday April 2 2006, 3:00 pm

Hey I saw in your profile that you don't think you look that pretty. Looking at your picture I can honestly say that you are very pretty. But I want to know why don't you think so? Do you have low self esteem? Or is it because people have talked bad about your looks before?

I also wanted to know would you think you aren't pretty just because what some guys may think? Because sometimes guys make comments to me that aren't that nice and sometimes it leaves me feeling a bit down.


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jealousyxo answered Sunday April 2 2006, 6:43 pm:
Aw i didnt tink anyone would read that,thank you for reading it.And thank you for saying im pretty.Its really been since about 5th grade when i started not liking how i looked,because well my best friend is GORGEOUS and i really dont think ill ever compare to her.Guys were jsut more into her then they were with me i was just the "friend" type,i was kinda chubby too around the times i was in 5th grade and middle school so i felt like i was always in the shadow of my best friend and i was just critizied (sp) about my weight and stuff like my mom would say "i think you would feel better if you lost like 10 pounds" and i felt awful about myself soo i just hated myself it was all just too much for me.Gusy would make comments say to my friend "why would you hang out with that girl shes beat man" and it would hurt me alot,so i was VERY self-concious about myself and my looks,guys can be such jerks sometimes and dont know that what they say can hurt or ruin someone its terrible.But since last summer ive become more self-confident and i dont feel like im behind my friends shadow anymore which is like a huge step for me to overcome,and ive lost like ALOT of weight soo i feel better about myself.People say that im "beautiful","pretty" and everything i mean they always have its just when i look into the mirror and what i see isnt someone whos that great to look at so i hate looking in mirrors alot.Im terrible especially in pictures like today,i took a picture with my best friend in the mall,and i think i look awful in it but my friend looks awesome in it,which kinda makes me feel bad.Like i point out all the bad things that i dont like about myself and i cant ever find anything good i like about myself.So if people have something to say about my clothes or like my body thats negative i freak out because im very sensitive about it.I used to cry soo much about my weight and looks.But,ive learned now to not listen to people who bring me down and just focus on more important and better things.So i dont care about what guys think anymore and dont let them bring you down if they say something thats inapporpriate(sp),rude,or hurtful.Just turn the other way,and forget about them its not worth fighting and getting very upset about it.i really liked this question,thank you for reading my profile again and saying im pretty it means alot to me.

♥ danielle


Aww! thank you soo much your a sweetheart ; ] even though i havent seen your picture im deffinately sure your gorgeous too inside and out : ]

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