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too far?
i'm 15 and my bf & i have been going out for 6 1/2 months. neither of us are ready for sex & we've hinted that. i know for sure i'm staying a virgin til i'm married. i also think anything with the guy's penis is just gross, or with him touching me down there. we both know we think those kinds of things are wrong. we get together every weekend and hang out, we usually end up making out. the farthest we've gone is me sitting on his lap, and he had his hand up my shirt. it seems like every week we go a little farther, but we both know when we or the other person wants to stop. we both hint to each other that we're going to be together for awhile, such as saying 'i hope we have this class together next year ..' or 'you should come to our pool this summer.' that kind of thing. my question is - should we just keep doing what we're doing?and i'm not really asking for suggestions, but what can we do without having sex? or like, oral/anal sex cause that's just sick. looking at it in my opinion is wrong!! oh & another sort of question - [i hope these arent too awkward for you to answer.] - do you think it's wrong that i sometimes sit on his lap, or put his legs between mine? [not in a gross way.] or like "straddle him" i guess you could say? not to sound slutty. sorry if this is too long, thank you for your help!
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What you guys are doing is not slutty or bad at all!! When you sit on his lap it just shows that you are comftrable around him and that you both care about each other. He's a good guy for not pressuring you into anything. If you feel comftrable and secure around him, then you guys can keep doing whatever you're doing. I sort of understand why you think that oral sex is gross, but have you tried doing anything. Now I don't mean that you should or anything, but a handjob isn't gross. It's just when you put your hand down his pants and sort of massage his penis. You guys don't have to do anything oral or anal to show that you guys care for each other. I don't want eather of you guys to think that and don't worry about what you're going to do. If something happens between you guys, it will happen on it's on when the time is right and because it was right for you guys not because you had to do it. It's good that you're saving sex for marrige but whatever you do make sure you always use protection. So even if you ever were going to perform oral sex to him, make sure he wears a condom no matter what. I don't think it's wrong that you sit on his lap at all. It's actually really cute and like I said, it shows you're comftrable around him. Whatever happens and whatever you guys do, it will be because you care about each other. :]
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