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girl problems
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well, i've known this one girl for a long time, and i think she's absolutely beautiful and i love her so much, but everytime i even say hi, she won't acknowledge me. i walk by her and see her everday at school about 30 times and i always say hi or something, and she just ignores me. we used to be really good friends until i asked her out last year and she won't even say a word to me now...i have always thought that she was a really nice girl, but nowaday's she's not...btw i'm 13 she's 13... plz help! i really love her but she doesn't even know i'm there almost...and i would love her to be my gf....
THNX VERY MUCH!!!!
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aw, that's so cute that you think she's beautiful and everything. i wish guys in my school were like that.
anyway.
she might be shy or something. if you asked her out the year before, [btw, did she say yes or no?] if she said yes and you two went out for a while or whatever, she's probably just over you. move on. she's probably not going to start talking to you anytime soon. = if she said no last year, then i'd suggest cut down on the saying hi to her and everything and see what happens. talk to her online maybe, and see if she responds. if she's in any of your classes, ask her a question so that she could respond, like "can i borrow a pencil?" or something of that sort. this is actually a tough question cause i don't know the details like what she does when you say hi to her. does she see you, and then look away? or does she not even look at you? if she looks at you, then looks away, there's 2 things that might be true: 1) she could be completely over you and doesn't even want to talk to you, which in that case, i'd suggest to get over her. or 2) she might just be shy. which if that's the case, try talking to her online or asking her questions where she has to respond like i said before.
i hope things work out the way you want.
hope i helped you & good luck.
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I understand how you're feeling but try to think about this from someone else's perspective for a minute. If you were to walk in and see the way she is treating you right now, what would you honestly think of her?
My thoughts of her right now is that she didn't know how to handle the situation when you told her how you felt about her and rather than deal with it directly, she's completely ignoring you. That doesn't suggest to me that she's a particularly nice person and it also tells me that you could do a lot better.
I hate to say it, because it just sounds so mean but it doesn't sound as though she reciprocates your feelings and you're not doing yourself any favours to continue being nice to this girl. I'm not saying be mean to her but just ignore her right back. She seems to be making it clear she isn't interested in even being civilised to you so she is a lost cause.
The best thing you can do right now is try to move on. I know it's a lot easier said than done but there are a lot of girls out there and you need to find one who's worth your efforts and who actually deserves you. You will find one but you need to move on from this girl first.
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