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I'm not anti-social......
So there's this boy who is 10, my babysitter's son, and he's all nice and stuff. Anyway I'm 14 and it's not that I'm anti social but I rather not talk to him. The boy is creepy...he always watches and talks and laughs and then after just looks at me. It's so annoyin. It's not like I feel to high but I'm scared of him, not in a "i'm going to kill u" more in a way of "he likes me". I don't like young ppl like him and it's really scary. I think he has a crush on me cause he's always lookin at me and then he's being all friendly.
I don't want to sound anti social...but wen he talks to me i jus say yeah or no and shunn away. Wen he looks at me I look away or jus ignore him. What can I do without tellin him?
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you arent anti social
my moms boyfriend has a son
he is 8
and his little friends allways look at me
they are just little kids!
Be nice to him, you shouldnt be mean to a little kid that likes you! It is just a little kid crush, he will out grow it
but till then, dont be a brat
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I don't really know what the problem is with you not wanting to even smile or talk to this boy. He's at a place in his life where everything is funny, and he likes to talk to other people.
You don't want him to feel like you are tired and annouyed of him. It would hurt his feelings. Maybe you aren't a huge fan of small children his age. But, usually when you try talking to them about what they like, they'll go on and on, but it's really cute. You should learn to bond with this child a little bit. Ask him how he likes school. And you were once 10 years old about 4 years ago. You went through a phase with big girly crushes, so try not to forget that you were once a child like he is too.
Sometimes it can be intimidating to talk to children that have a crush on you, but ignoring him just makes it harder on him. It's not like if you start talking to him, he'll fall deeply in love and ask you to marry him! Usually the way you interact with a child his age sort of shapes the young boy he will become. So be friendly and stop trying to run away from a 10 year old.
-TheTeenGirl
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