We dated for four months. She dumped me two weeks ago. She had found a porn site on my computer. I rarely look at porn. But this site was in my history file which dumb me never emptied. Her mom I know is behind this break up to. However, We havn't spoken for two weeks. She has cancelled her cell phone. But funny thing is, We used to IM alot. Yesterday I was on msn and seen her log in. I said Hi. and we chatted for a couple minutes and then she said she had to go and logged off. She still has me on her msn. Otherwise we couldn't chat. I would do anything to win her back. I'm lost. I did everything for her. I said sorry over and over when she left crying my eyes out. I want to go to her house tomorrow night and sy my goodbyes but i cant I still love her. If i go to her house I want to win her back. What can I say or do even though her mom hates me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Advisor answered Monday March 27 2006, 12:25 am: Yeah guy should have never looked at porn now this is what happens, lets keep this simple what you did is NOT normal looking at naked woman on porn sites is what guys do when they are not satisfied with there partner after all if you can see your partner naked when you want why would you look at porn. anyway give your girl time, if she cares about you enough she will come back. I would just go to her house make sure her mom is not home and tell her how much you care about her and that site was simply a mistake and you regret ever weakening to it and you will NEVER DO IT again and brother you better mean it or dont waste her time saying it. let her know you still want her and you want her back and that if she can forgive you she wont be sorry (obviously the goal here is to make sure she doesnt regret it because if she does you can cry all you want she wont come back [ Advisor's advice column | Ask Advisor A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Sunday March 26 2006, 6:15 pm: So they are all upset that you looked at porn?
Apparently her mom does not know that guys will look and porn and a lot of them do. So, how can you have a relationship with a girl who doesn't understand that what you did was normal?
I think you need to move on without her. Her mom hates you for no good reason, she and her daughter overeacted. I know you think that you are really in love with her, but four months isn't a whole lot of time together. I'm not saying that getting over her should be easy, but it hasn't been so long. So get yourself away from her while you are still not dating for very long.
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