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Lettting go
I have just been left by a girl. Im 25 6'8" 240lbs. She is 22. we've been together 6mnths. Its over. I lost her. My heart has been broken. She has cut off all comunication from me. I want to move on. More so, I have to moveon. I cant run after her anymore. I know I'll lose. Twice it has happened to me. I find a nice girl. We start courtship. I do my utmost to make her happy, and feel loved and twice I got taken for a ride. Taken advantage of. I can't keep going like this. I have come to the point where I fear to date another girl. Scared I'll get screwed again. I want to be happy. I've had a horrible lonely past. I can't live like this. Any advice or help?
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Sorry to say - but sometimes you have to suck it up and move along.
I've had this happen to me.. I know how bad your hurting right now.
But this is what I've found. You can't be happy with someone unless you are happy with yourself.
Try to get some counseling about your loneliness past problems.
When you kick that problem, it will be easier when things like this happen.
Good luck.
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Since you didn't go into any specifics about the relationships and we can't really give you any advice on what could have gone wrong, Im assuming you need to know how to deal with the loss.
Why do you feel like you were taken for a ride?
To be honest, you pretty much were. That's what dating is about, your "test driving" to see if a long term relationship is possible. If you were looking for a car and you didn't like the test drive would you stop looking at other cars?? No, You would keep looking till you find one you like. Relationships are the same thing. Let yourself learn from each relationship. Take the qualities you like in a woman and find them in another. Also, don't let your past become your future, and don't let anyone else's opinion of you become your reality. Is someone put you in a field of rocks and said under one of those rocks there is a Diamond worth a million bucks, would you turn over a couple stones and then give up?? Or would you keep turning over stones till you found the diamond??
Keep turning over stones my friend, every stone you turn over is one stone closer to the diamond!
Happy Hunting!
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