Ok so me and one of my friends used to be so close, we were really good best friends and se used to be a huge prep and she started to hang around these other people who are emo/goth (i have no problem with emos & goths i have alot of friends who are emo/goth/punk) but now she totally changed and shes not herself at all anymore we used to have so much fun and now we almost never hang out and she gets on my nerves like crazy now! i cant stand her anymore i really want to be friends with her again but i dont know what to do and i CANNOT talk to her about her new friends or about the waay she is now because she get huge attitudes and i really am tired of dealing with them so is there anything else i can do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Skittles_7271 answered Friday March 24 2006, 2:09 pm: You could talk to her and ask her if she thinks things have changed.If she denies it then tell her how you feel.Say I don't have a problem with your new friends but it seems like now we're farther apart.If she still denies it maybe it's time to find some other friends.This kind of happened to me except my friends became more popular instead,but now I have found new friends and I'm much better than being alone.Hope this helps.
kelli_baby_x33 answered Friday March 24 2006, 11:58 am: Well even though your friend gets on your nerves now, you still have to talk to her at least one more time. Tell her why you've been upset lately and see if she feels the same way. Just tell her you miss the old times you used to have and how close you used to be. If your friend agrees with you then you know that you two were destined to be best friends. If not just tell her that maybe its time you go your seperate ways. Do what makes you happy because pretending to be friends with someone is probably worse then stopping talking to them altogether. I hope this helps! ♥ Kelli [ kelli_baby_x33's advice column | Ask kelli_baby_x33 A Question ]
corvin answered Friday March 24 2006, 6:17 am: Maybe she IS herself now. People change and find new ways of expressing themselves, ways to be themselves. It's perfectly natural. As ever, the best advice is to talk to them about it. [ corvin's advice column | Ask corvin A Question ]
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