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Not pregnant but thinks somthings wrong


Question Posted Thursday March 23 2006, 10:04 pm

hi, i missed my period but then i took a test and it says im not pregnant but its been a while and i still havnt started my period. ive been gettin these weird painful feelings in my stomach and dizzy at the same time. im still sexually active and my boyfriend fingered me and he said that he felt somthin small and fleshy that wasnt usually there and he pushed on it a lil and it slide upwards and was gone and that the inside of me was swollen in a way its hard to explain, but do u have any idea wat could be going on? and i just started having my periods this year

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alisonmarie answered Saturday March 25 2006, 4:01 am:
Vaginas are unique to each woman. There could be lumps, bumps, wrinkles, smooth bits - it's really dependent on the woman. The vagina also responds to stimulation - it might become lubricated, swollen, tight/loose. These levels of reponse would change depending on how excited you feel.

The cervix (the link between the vagina and the womb) also changes throughout the month, so that is another thing that isn't always the same.

I don't think your boyfriend has felt a baby, if that's what you're thinking. If you've only just missed your period, any posible fetus would be so small you could barely see it with your eyes, let alone feel it. It also would not be in the vagina.

If you've only started having your periods, they could just take awhile to establish a regular pattern. The pain you are feeling in your stomach could be cramps.

However, only a doctor would be able to tell you what's happening with your body. If you feel concerned about yourself, it's always best to make an appointment with a doctor you trust and get a check-up. Until you've put your mind at rest, you will probably begin to feel more and more stressed - I'm imagining your boyfriend is feeling fairly anxious as well, which is why he might have noticed something 'new' in your vagina.

Best of luck.

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