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guyfriends/boyfriend confusion
(15/f) whenever i am friends with a guy/or become friends with a guy i always seem to end up liking them or at least consider a crush. its like i cant just have a guy whos a friend that i dont end up liking. even guys that are just nice to me or smile at me, i just start to think about them all the time and maybe its because i've never had a real boyfriend so i jump to conclusions/get overly excited about a guy being nice. i dont know how to fix this becuase it causes me to like alot of guys but not like just crushes and i hate having to think about all these different people and decide who i actually lik and who i jus think are fun to flirt with. please help i want a guyfriend who i dont think about as a boyfriend!
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The same thing happens to me, because I have a LOT of male friends. My theory is that because I'm friends with them, I get to see what great guys they are. I end up falling for the sweetheart that they are, and it happens all the time. All I do is tell myself that I'm falling for them for the same reason that I'm friends with them, so I should be satisfied with being just friends :)
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Well really the only thing that i can come up with is that you should decide who you really like and not just try to go around likeing all of the people that end up just bein your friend but find who you really think you like the most try to get with them and try to stick with them hope i helped †kasey†
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Maybe you start likeing them because them showing interest in you is flattering. We are all like that, we like to have attention payed to us. Each time you start to like one of your guyfriends as more than a friend think to yourself why you are likeing him. If its just because he is giving you attention and may like you then tell yourself that and try to understand what you want in a boyfriend and what seperates them from just a malefriend. Hopefully it will help you.
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