I have liked a boy at school for about three months secretly. Today on msn I got the news my best friend is going out with him. She has had a lot of bad relationships due to one boyfriend self-harming, one drug using e.c.t. but now she has him. He is amazing a good listener and all the qualities you would want, I want to know is it alright to envy her? I want to be happy for her but I cant find it in me? Should I let her know or keep this all inside? Please help me I dont know what to do to make me get over him, I dont want to lose a friend over this.
Understandingly you are jealous of her, because he's obviously a good catch but you have to take step back and look at the situation. If you say something she is probably going to be hurt, and/or mad and most probably there will be hard feelings between the two of you. Liking someone you can't have is hard. I know, I have the exact same problem but you have to deal. You have to at least act that you're happy for the two of them even if you aren't. This relationship probably means alot to your friend and I think she would be hurt if you didn't. Its fine to envy her, just don't let her know. Be there for her and be glad for her as much can.
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