okay well i have this friend and we have been freinds for like 3 years now (i mean we were like best friends) and last year her first year of middle school (same with me) she was on a diffrent team and so was i. and she started hanging out with people and completely changed all she would do was brag about them or be a bitch. but she had a fight with them and then was like crawling back to me and being "obsessed" with me. so now she found a new group of friends this year and completely changed, i mean shes still is nice to me and all and she isnt exacually obsessed with them its just that she acts diffrent and talk abouts them alot. i dont feel like where as close as we used to be and and i havent hung out with outside of school with her for a couple months now. my question is do u think shes ganna get in a fight with these people to and start acting normal again or what? what shoudl i do too!?? ( i mean i still luv her to death a stuff)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? melissa answered Sunday March 19 2006, 12:22 am: I'm a junior in high school and in my experience...its part of life to drift away from others. You will probably get closer with someone else. I know its not what you WANT to hear..but its what happens (especially in middle school) Throughtout elementary,middle,and high school..i have grown close to some people for a couple years..we would eventually drift apart..then i would get close with other people..its like a cycle. I'm not saying things cant be fixed..all im saying is this is natural for you to experience stuff like drifting apart from a friend. What you coulllld try is hanging out with her again more..and kind of repairing the broken bonds to make things stronger. Who knows..you could wind up getting back to being really close with her. If not..i know its sad to think about..but people change and drift apart
try the thing where you hang out with her more and let me know how that works
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