Hey guyss, Ohkay, well, me & my boyfriend have been going out for about a week. I really want to be a good girlfriend. What are some cute little things I could do to be a better girlfriend. Like little things to show him I care. Cause at first he'd always come up behind me and tickle me, and now he suddenly doesnt anymore, and I'm wondering if I rejected him. Like by not responding. So if anyone can help that'd be so great! Love ya'll. <3333
HectorJr answered Friday March 17 2006, 10:08 pm: Try it on him for a change! It probably has nothing to do with you rejecting him or not being good enough - could just be his way of trying to feel more comfortable around you. So here are some ideas [that I've always wanted to try & would feel good about =)]:
-Drop off little notes and messages in his locker (like I <3 U; sum1 is thinking of you; etc)
-Write him a poem
Probably one that you came up with yourself. Be creative, come up with your own rhyming style - it doesn't even have to rhyme and can rhyme every other 3 lines if you want.
-Mail a card to him
Sound a bit weird, but you'll know its something he will keep. Don't you love getting stuff in the mail, even if its a magazine you've never heard of? Write a message or letter, even if its just to say hi.
-Cuddle with him
Haha and I don't mind being one of the few to admit it, but guys love that more than girls do, really.
-Be honest and open
Might not mean much now or is probably obvious, but it is very important, and I know that is something I always take into consideration and appreciate that a whole lot.
Hope that helped and good luck.
P.S. - also if those ideas aren't too helpful, just try to make or draw things for him that he could keep and hold onto, like maybe a picture you drew for him or you two on every Friday - be creative, you'll be fine. [ HectorJr's advice column | Ask HectorJr A Question ]
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