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I'm messed up aren't I? I'm 14/f, here's the story. Ever since I've been on the basketball team with one of my best friends I've been feeling this weird pull towards her that I haven't really felt with any of my other friends (guys or girls) and at first I tried to shake it off but now everytime she talks to me I have to fight not to blush and if she's close to me I have to bite my lip not to say anything stupid. God I'm really messed up aren't I? I'm supposed to like guys not girls and certainly not my best friend! Can anyone tell me if this is normal? If not then how do I stop it? I rate high, please and thnx!
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At your age, with hormones flying around it is possible to have a crush on someone of the same sex. It doesn't always last but even if it does, being a lesbian isn't the end of the world. Give it time, you may find the attraction fades and you can speak to her normally again. Good luck. ]
Sometimes when you spend A LOT of time with someone, same sex or not, you might get a similar feeling to an attraction towards them. It may not be a romantic thing, but more of a closeness to them. I seriously doubt you've randomly turned into a lesbian. ]
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