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boyfriend and best friend
well heres the deal...
my best friend always goes out with my boyfriends after we break up. its the second time in a row and to tell you the truth it is starting o get to me. i feel like a bad friend if i tell her not to go out with them but then again, is it really fair to me that shes taking my "leftovers" is she being a good friend because it doesnt seem so to me. but maybe i might be wrong. i need some advice. also she is walking all over my other best friend and i want it to stop. should we top being friends all together or else how sohuld i work this whole problem out?
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well you've probably heard of the girl code or book and it says a best friend should never go out with your ex because its just wrong, i would tell her that little girl code and make sure she knows what going on and if she acts snippy to you and gets all mean ditch her for a while or until you're over it. since she has to go out with your left overs it clearly means she's desperite and if she's walking over you other bf then tell her to stop and that you dont want to be friends with someone like her.
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Really the best thing you can do is talk to her about it. If she is really your best friend she should understand that after you have a breakup with someone its hard to see your best friend go out with him. Dont stop begin friends with her all together just work it out. I stopped being friens with someone for this one reason and later on i figure that it was pretty stupid and now i regret it. So you dont wanna do something you will regret.
-Jess
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