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why hasnt he contacted me?
I've been really depressed the last couple of days because a guy that was a really close friend of mine who moved a couple of months ago has never contacted me. I tried phoning him on his cell the other day and was told it was disconnected. He never sends me emails, and when I send him emails they get returned. So I think he's changed his address and never told me.
I don't understand why he would do this to me. Before he left we gave each other a big hug. I gave him a friendship candle and he said he would always think of me everytime he looked at it. He also gave me his computer before he left.
Other people I have talked to said he is either having financial problems or met a new girl. But why wouldnt he have told me this instead of having me worry? Does anyone have any ideas why he hasnt contacted me?
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It could be those reasons, however it could be that he's just been rushed off his feet and hasn't had the time to contact you yet. Perhaps he is waiting until he has settled in so that he can give you a complete report of how the move went.
However, if he is having financial problems, maybe he hasn't contacted you because he doesn't want to admit that he is failing in his new place. Or perhaps he misses you so much that its hard to call you because that just re-emphasizes the distance between you.
This is all just speculation of course and to be honest I really don't think you should worry about this, it's probably just a simple reason and he will phone you as soon as he can. I know it is difficult to stop yourself, but there is no point in worrying yourself silly over why he hasn't contacted you when you have no idea what's going on. Trust me, if you two are as close as you say you are, then he will contact you and I'm sure he'll be able to give you a very good reason for why he hasn't did it before.
Be strong
Sapphire Lily xxx
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I don't think he's purposly trying to ignore you. Moving is stressful business and making your home in a new place takes a lot of time and effort. Don't take his lack of contact personally. He's probably just trying to get things settled. When he's ready to contact you, he will.
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