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Hey! been going out with this guy for 11 months, love him hes gr8. But i fancy someone else and we have more in common. Last night, i was going into a cemetery. (i go there to unwind and listen to music) and he was there too! he says he likes da atmosphere! my bf usually thinks its really weird. He has no spiritual side at all! anyway, we ended up talking for ages and ages and it got cold so we cuddled up and basically, im not proud of it but... we had sex against the wall in a cemetery. ok i sound like a necrophilliac, well like im on that path anyway. im really not. Lol. Anyway, he doesnt know i have a bf. Should i tell him? Shuld i stay with my bf? Should i tell my bf what ive done? And is it weird that i liked it more where we were then in more normal places? sorry bout all the questions.
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Well kind of a sitation here. At first that necrophilliac thing. I had sex on a cemetery too (and it was really better than other places - excitement) and visit it often too so I personaly dont think is weird or necrophillic. The other thing is the cheating on your boy friend. Sounds like you're looking for someone better than your boy friend like this cemetery guy. You talked a lot with him, you had sex with him and it souds like you had a nice time. So if you realy love your bf you shoul try to forget the whole thing and talk to the cemetery guy that it was just ... how do you say it in english :) .... a temporary weakness (hope you understand) and part with him (the cemetery guy - and tell him about your bf) OR if you feel like the realtionship with your bf is going nowhere or have any other serious doubts you should tell him what you done but that'll probably end up in parting with him. Sorry to say this but this is complicated like hell............ Sound like you like the cemetery guy so try to think about if the love with your bf is still real or a just habbit(after 11m its possible) (hard thing to do :( ) and if it real just dont tell him about the cemetery and pretend nothing happened. If you dont love him any more part with him (just be gentle).... I think I failed to help you and Im realy sorry but I can tell you one thing. You have done nothing wrong. I would have done the same. Its natural. Sorry
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