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Question Posted Saturday February 25 2006, 11:12 pm

id really like it if a guy could explain what he might really be thinking and give me some opionions and if some girls could answer this to.
ok so heres the deal. im 14 and my bf is 17. not that that really matters about this question but it might. so i have a bestfriend thats a guy. i love him to death. i hang out with him like 4 days a week. my boyfriend is getting very upset with that though. he doesnt like me hanging with guys, but can i help it if my bestfriend is a guy? i do hangout with my bestfriend alot but my boyfriend works alot and my bestfriend doesnt have alot to do so he hangs out with me. im never alone with my bestfriend so its not like we'd do anything. my bestfriend also has a girlfriend of his own and he loves her alot. so is it right for my boyfriend to tell me that i cant talk about my bestfriend around him and that he doesnt like me hanging with my bestfriend. i asked my boyfriend to meet my bestfriend and he wont. my boyfriend also said that he doesnt like me hanging out with my bestfriend but if i do just dont tell him about it. i feel really bad about that though. it makes me feel like im keeping something from him even if he told me not to tell him. help!?!?!


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livinthesimplelife08 answered Sunday February 26 2006, 7:12 pm:
Don't let any guy tell you what to do... just as ebkatie said.. friends before your boyfriend.. your boyfriend can leave you instantly.. but a best friend will always be there!

Hope I helped!
Jamie

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ebkatie answered Sunday February 26 2006, 3:46 pm:
well you shouldnt just leave your best friend. You know what I say dont you? A boyfriend may leave anytime but a best friend is always there. Your boyfriend needs to realize that your best friend is a guy and you arent going to change just because he doesnt like you two being together all the time. You need to talk to him about your priorities and his too. If you think that you two are meant to be together then you should definately stick with him but if you dont get along that well then you should just let him go. So then you can hang out with anybody you want without upsetting your boyfriend.
Hope i have helped Kate♥

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