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Question Posted Saturday February 25 2006, 3:11 pm

Okay. Tonight is obviously MARDI GRAS! & I live in the STL area which means ITS GONNA BE CRAZY down there. Im only 15 but my boyfriend is 18 and i really wanna go. He's going and obviously i wanna be there so he doesnt look to much. But how am i supposed to go? My mom is kinda strict and im thinking i should tell her because if I lie and tell her were goin other places and we get caught ill be in big trouble plus she'll want me home around 12:30. So should I just tell her? & Tell her ill call every 1-2 hours to check in. None of the people Im going with will have been drinking or will be drinking. That Im the only girl going with them and they wont let me out of their site. & if its a problem with Trust. Ive never gaven her a reason not to trust me neither has my boyfriend. So if she still doesnt trust us how is she ever going to if she doesnt give us a chance to prove that we can be trusted... or should I just lie to her?

WHAT SHALL I DO!?

Please get back to me by 4 30. Mideastern? --about 2 hours from the time this is submitted.

THANKS!
<3*Jess


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sweetpea318_247 answered Sunday February 26 2006, 3:18 am:
how about you stop worrying about your boyfriend "looking too much" hes an 18 year old guy dating a 15 year old. wtf let him have some time to himself. you dont need to watch his every move. hes 18 by now he should be slightly more mature than a complete idiot. dont go! let him do his thing.

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singursoul answered Saturday February 25 2006, 10:32 pm:
i would tell your mom what you're planning on doing and stuff. don't lie to her because she will find out, and then when you want to go do something else she won't be able to believe you. trust takes years to build and seconds to break, so remember that. if she doesn't let you go it might not be that she doesn't trust you or your boyfriend, she just doesn't want you going out so late or w/e, but anyway, tell her the truth, because if you have that trust you have more freedom. really. i have friends that lie to their parents ALOT (not saying that you do, because you said you've never given your mom a reason to not trust you)and they NEVER get to do ANYTHING, which is where you'll be if you start lying. even once, because one lie leads to another and another and another.
hope i helped ya

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SW33TxSUGAR answered Saturday February 25 2006, 5:41 pm:
ooo. i live in NEW ORLEANS. and yeahh tonite isnt mardi gras tuesday is..

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