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confused on if hes worth it
well i'm almost 17 and ive been with my boyfreind for about a year and a half now, and he is quite the control freak. he is amazing and sweet but he tends to get angry about the stupidest stuff, he jumps to conclusions and makes false accusations. he's even hit me a few times. i dont know if hes being over pretective or if he just thinks he's some kind of pimp. i know deep down he's insecure but he acts like such a show-off especially in front of his freinds. and it's hard to talk to him about this subject, because he ends up getting mad and feeling "disrespected" about it if i bring anything up. later on, he'll apoloogize & sweet-talk. what should i do to solve this problem? i love him but i dunno if i need all this right now.
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I'm going to let you in on a bit of a secret.
Sometimes hits me, gets angry over stupid things, thinks he is a pimp, and is a control freak is not amazing and sweet.
Amazing and sweet is respecting YOU, no matter how angry he is.
I'm not saying I think you should leave him, I'm saying I know you should leave him. It's going to be hard, especially because you've been together for so long. But if you keep putting up with this guy, you'll either end up dead or abused. It seems a little extreme, but it happens.
In this situation, if you respect yourself at all, and care about your life, you should get out of this relationship ASAP.
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