how can i change myself to yhe better
i lie,steel,dont pray.
i hate mylife?
and how can i change my love he is drunk and hyper seX?
he needs e and i dont know how to change him or change myself?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Krupple answered Saturday May 20 2006, 2:11 pm: You don't pray. It's apparent you're religious. I'll assume you're Christian because that's the most common religion in America (assuming you're American). As a Christian, you're lying and steal. Those two things alone will get you sent to hell, which I'm sure you don't want. If you don't pray for forgiveness, and mean it, and then stop, you probably can't be saved. You'll feel a lot better after a long, silent prayer. You don't even have to put your hands together. Just talk to God as you lay in your bed trying to go to sleep.
You hate your life. Well, of coarse you hate your life. It sounds like you've got a lot of guilt on your shoulders. Until you learn to cast your bad habits aside I think you're going to be feeling guilt for a good while.
By coming here and asking for help it's obvious this is not the life style you want for yourself. You still have time to live a good and moral life.
If your love is a drunk, than he needs help. Bring him to an alcoholics anonymous or a local treatment place. Just have him come in the car and tell him you're going somewhere, and check him in.
With the way your relationship is going, you both need a good friend more than a relationship. If hyper sex means he wants to have sex all of the time, than changing your relationship to a friendship would definitely be a good start.
He'll have to change himself. I think a councilor could benefit both of you. The average person goes through a major depression twice in their lives, and it never hurts to get some help.
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