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14/f
Ok, my boyfriend and I are 14 and we're in love. Like seriously in love. We're been dating for over a year now and we've had our times but we always work it out. Last night though, I was on the phone with him and he said some stuff that I don't know, hurt alot and I cried for a little while (I was still on the phone with him). He apologized for it and all and I think he made up for it with all the things he said but then he just started acting like nothing ever even happened. I don't get why he does this, can someone tell me why? He does this everytime we fight but we've never had a fight as bad as this one.
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Hey,
I'm so sorry that he hurt you so bad you cried. I've done that with a guy once, and it does not feel good at all. I personally think, that 1, your both 14, boys are often weird like that. They make a huge dramatic scene, and the next day their just fine, while you still feel like crap. I say you sit him down, just the two of you and just get everything out. Ask him what he meant, why he would say things so hurtful, and let him know that if he ever makes you cry like that again you could find better. (you could just bluff that, so he won't ever do it again. Also so he'll realize that he doesn't want to lose you.) Just talk about everything, keep calm, and at the end hug or kiss, show affection to ensure that you both still love each other deeply. Hope I helped :)
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♥ Believe me I think its a guy thing. My boyfriend does the same thing. And yea it does kinda tick me off because it DID happen and to him it just disapears. I think its the fact guys are not as dramatic as girls. They dont like drama and try to avoid it as much as possible. So thats all it is. It does prevent the fight from lasting longer then it needs to and your back to your loving relationship again. So think of it as a good thing.
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