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Battles with mother
I know that most teenagers don't get along with their parents, but I don't think what my mother and I do is healthy... not one bit. She and I are the only two in our household now, but we use to live with her parents because she couldn't work because of back surgery. Well, during this past summer we were living with her parents and I was dating a guy who lived by himself(he was attending college that was 45 min away from me). My mom didn't seem to really mind, she even let him stay over on the weekends because of the distance or maybe to keep an eye on us.... not sure, lol. Well to make long story short, he moved away it ended horrible and I had to tell her that we had sex and I thought I might be pregnant. She isn't the type to really show emotions, but I knew I let her down and hurt her bad. That fueled a fire with the grandparents, they told us we need to find a place and get our own lives. Ever since then my mother and I have been nothing but two bickering dogs. We rarely get along anymore and if we do its only for a SHORT SHORT pd. She has no trust with me and boys anymore and that kills me because yeah I made a mistake, but I've fessed up and payed my dues for it. I don't want to fight with her, I want to have a healthy relationship and be able to go shopping, talk about boys, watch movies with her, do all the girlie things with her. But we just can't because when she says black, I'm saying white. Can anyone help me with suggestions or anything???
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My mom is kind of the same way. you might want to sit down and try to talk to your mom. and tell her the same things that are in the question that i am answering right now. tell her that you want to have a healthy relationship with her and you dont want to argue anymore. tell her that you know you made a mistake and you just want her trust back because its hurting you. if she doesnt understand then i dont think she is fit to be a good mom. no offense... but moms should sit down and listen to what their kids have to say. mabe shes under alot of stress to you should help her around the house and stuff... mabe shell come around. i truly hope this helps you. god bless you.
heaRts; kayla
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