you have sex by having the male put his penis into your vagina. if thats what your asking.
but if your asking how you have it; it usually just happens. unless you get paid to do it (prostitution) then you know its going to happen or you've talked to the other person. its hard to answer your question the way you worded it. maybe you could be more specific? i'll try my best to help you. =) [ TheLoveDoctor's advice column | Ask TheLoveDoctor A Question ]
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