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13/f ok so ive been going out with this guy(lets call him bill) for 10 months now and i LOVE THE KID TO DEATH but i get REALLY jelous sometimes. like just today my friend hugged him and he hugged her and it just botherd me SO MUCH!!!! i know he loves me and would never hurt me but its just weird i guess. and we play "mind games" with eachother. for example he'll say a joke and ill pretend to take it personally and he'll be like "o im sorry i love you blah blah blah" or the other way around. and it just starts getting annoying. but its the only way we really flirt. i love him but i think im a bitch to him sometimes too!!! so i think he deserves ALOT more than me so i dont know if i should break up with him or not. i mean......on one side......i love him and need him on the other i want him to be happy. does anyone know how to help me i swear 5's all around!!!
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Ok, so I'm female and my best friend is a boy. He also has a girlfriend and she is one of my other best friends too. She sometimes gets jealous when I hug him goodbye, but she knows that he loves her and not me, we're just really good friends. Just try and think that and don't bring up with him coz he sounds like a nice guy!
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try to be nicer to him and not get so jelous .... if he sees that hes the only one being mean and playing mind games he will give up maybe
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Don't dump him because you think he deserves better than you, if he thought that he wouldn't be going out with you. He loves you too, believe me. But don't take my word for it, the only way for you to be completley secure in your relationship is to talk to him about it. Talk about everything your worried about and I'm sure he'l be able to reassure you that he wants to be with you and is happy with you.
The whole jealousy thing is hard. I have the same situation with my boyfriend right now and my best friend. It's difficult to judge whether to do anything, it may just end up upsetting people. The way that I think I'm going to go and you could to, is to get a friend to point out the closeness between them to my best friend. That way we don't seem like the paranoid girlfriend as its "their" opinion and it stops.
Good luck hunni, hope it works out okay
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