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please help..boy/parents trouble..
hi!! ookay well i thought this guy was like soo hott and i never thought like he knew i existed or anything i would always just want him to know i existed and just have him know who i was. well the best thing happend to me last night..me and my friend went out to eat.. and we met two guys there and then went back to their house. and then like this kid i thought was hott i was telling you about before called one of the guys and asked if him and his friend came over!! and so he came over :) but all the guys talked about was girls and having sex and all this sexual stuff..and smoking and shit. well this kid i thought was hot asked if me and my friend smoked or did drugs and we are like..noo..we dont do that stuff and he looked at us like oookay? but then also i saw him looking at either me or my friend or both but then the guys were talking about the kid i thought was hot and this one girl..so then i was like hm...and i think the kid i thought was hot thought my friend was hot!! :( that always happens to me SERIOUSLY ALL THE TIME. we always meet boys and they always think my friend is hott and not me..i feel so stupid.. well the guys brought me and my friend home but they didnt really say much..but the kid i thought was hot was like hey i think ive seen you somewhere before? i dont know..i just think ive seen you sometimes. and i was like AHH!! lol but then i had to get out because we were at my house..he didnt ask for my number or anything..me and my friend thought he was acting kinda strange..like he was drunk or something? haha imnot sure! but i dont know if he was..and so what if i see him next time? do i say something..like heyy or like push him you know..flirty..but the thing is i dont know if he would remember me!! because if he was drunk? im so confused! or should i wait for him to come up to me if i see him..and that way i will know he remembers me?? i need help with this kid! :( anything will help!?
ps. lately ive been lying to my parents alot because like they ask so many questions and they usually never let me go places..especially boys houses. they dont even know ive like been to one before? and when me andmy friend were out to eat last night they called and were like so do u have a ride home? i was like umm yea..my friends dad even tho those guys were..and my mom is like ookay we just dont want you to go home with some strangers..and they dont even know i went to that kids house after or anything! i had to tell them i went back to my friends house for a little bit because otherwise they woulda been like oh you cant go to his house..we dont know him..im picking you up right now..i had to tell them a lie sorta like this before..i mean i feel SOOOO bad lying but they never let me do ANYTHING!!! they ask so many questions too..they are like overprotective with me and going over to guys house..heck they are protective with me going over to girls houses i just met and we are becoming friends if you know what i mean....i just dont know what to do!! me and my parents dont communicate well either..so i cant really talk to them and just tell them i want more freedom with guys and stuff..its too awkward. PLEASE SUGGESTIONS ON THIS TOO!!!
sorry for it being like super long any maybe confusing? but any advice would help..if your gonna make fun of me for some reason or say im just a dumbass..dont waste your time please.
thanks to everyone ♥
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Hmmmmm...your parents try to keep an eye on you so that you don't get in over your head with guys and drugs and sex, yet you are lying to them so you can go over to a guy's house and sit and listen to them talk about drugs and sex.
I just think that is comical. You are a normal 15 year old girl, but this guy might not be the guy you want. I would say if he is into drugs and sex and drinking and you don't have (much?) experience with any of those things, keep him as eye candy.
Your parents are right. You will realize this as you mature and your world view changes as well.
If you keep lying to them, they will find out... it is hard to be a cunning liar at 15. Then, you will have no freedom whatsoever. So, act mature and give them a reason to give you more freedom.
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I gave you an honest and mature opinion (which is why you probably CAN'T understand it)and because you are stupid and 15 and don't want to hear anything other than what you want to, you gave me a one. Fine. Go for him and when he pressures you into sex and drinking and drugs and you realize that you are not able to handle it and he dumps you for a girl who can, who are you going to cry your idiot eyes out to? You need to grow up. You need to grow up, and for extra emphasis I will say it again. YOU NEED TO GROW UP.
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He'll most likely remember you, and he might have been high. Plus, even if he didn't remember you, you know he's seen you around school, because he said he recognised you.
Just go up and say something like, "Heyy! I had fun last night, how about you?" Then talk about school or whatever else you can think of.
Sense you took the time to mention drugs, I assume that's something that concerns you.
While I don't do drugs, I can tell you that if you hang out with people who do drugs, there is almost a 100% chance that you will be drawn in.
The freedom thing really sucks and if you can't talk to your folks, you'll have to just make mature descisions on your own without them. It really would benefit them to give you more freedom though.
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