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friendship or a relationship?
hi sanj, i have read your other answers and your advice seems to be very good. I am a girl and im 15 years old. Recently, i think that i have started falling for one of my good friends. i dont want to, but i just have. its kind of annoying aswell seeing as we have been out once before and that did not work. sometimes to me, it seems as though he is flirting but im not sure. how can i tell if he likes me, or im just reading the wrong signals? please answer me back :)
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hmm tricky situation really...as like with every other relationship/friendship sort of thing, yeah you can always try and read a persons signals to see how they are feeling. But no matter what there is always the slight chance that you are wrong. You said you two have been out once before but it didn't work out, so i am going to take a wild guess and say you two are pretty close if you got through all that. I can give you little tips n stuff..but in this case i would advise you to tell him..if he hasnt made any obvious signs or moves to tell you he likes you then you should be able to tell him..
Being close friends with someone is all abouit honesty, and two good friends should be able to tell eachother anything, not matter how good or bad it is. Besides, if things turn out badly in other words if he never speaks to you, you will know that your friendship didnt mean much from the start, but if things go on as per usual, you will know you and him have something strong going on..and well you know what they say..love always starts from a friendship...
Sometimes even just going straight in there and go to kiss them will tell you if they feel the same, although it is usually alot better if the boy does that so i wouldnt strongly advise it..
Dont get any false ideas from flirting..saying from experiance..some people just naturally flirt with everyone and not just with the person they fancy. So yeh dont think he is flirting with me so he must like me.
So yeah i think the best way is to take a risk and talk to him abou how you feel n all...if you dont take any risks in life you wont get nowhere..trust me.. i know what your thinkin you dont want to risk it because you dont want to loose him as a mate etc etc...but its the only way to know for sure what he is feeling for you
hope i helped :)...lemme know if you need anything else..
Sanj
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