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ok so heres the deal, this girl named brandi keeps on hitting on my boyfriend. I confronted her about it a few times and shes just like no i used to like him but i really dont anymore. So then me and her started talking more and more, and it seemed like we were becoming friends. But then tuesday at the basketball game i was cheering and she was sitting in the stands with him i guess and he said that she tried to hold his hand. She said she wouldn't do that and that she really didn't like him like that. Im goign to confront her again but im not sure what to say this time. How can i make her stop? I have tried everything!!! please help!
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well basically ask your boyfriend to talk to her. tell him to tell her that he doesnt like her and taht hes sorry, but she needs to stay away from him because he has a gf. and why was your boyfriend like sitting with her and not sitting near you to hear you cheer? tell him how you feel about her and that you are getting pissed taht she wont leave him alone, and that you dont really like them hanging out that much. hope i helped
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i dont think this is as hard as it seems to you. Simply tell your guy to tell her flat out that he is not interested in her and that you are not comfortable with how she relates with you. Unless he is not all that serious about you. Good luck.
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Where's your boyfriend in all this? Doesn't he have a choice about whether or not he's going to let her hold his hand? Unless he's actually an inflatable doll, HE'S the one who you should be talking to.
That girl is clearly out to get him, but it's not like he's helpless. Talk to him; tell him how you feel. If he loves you, he'll tell that girl to leave him alone, and he'll make it stick.
If he's not strong enough to resist her, then I'm afraid this is only the beginning of your problems. Because there are a LOT of girls out there who like to steal other people's boyfriends, and if your boyfriend is really that weak-willed, you're going to lose him sooner or later.
But if he IS that weak, if he doesn't love you enough to chose you over any other girl, then he's not worth keeping as a boyfriend.
Talk to him.
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