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I'm in high school and the person I've been dating for a year recently came out as trans. He (formerly she) has begun dressing like a guy, has cut his hair short, and is now using a male name.
He says he still loves me but understands if I no longer want to be involved. I've always thought of myself as straight. But I'm still very much in love too and so I told him that I'm willing to give this a shot.
My parents and a few of my friends seem to think I'm crazy for wanting to remain together. Maybe I am but, like I said, I'm still in love and want to see if we can make this work. Any advice on how to make everyone back off and just accept that this is something I have to do? (link)
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Personally, I think it's natural that you still have feelings for him. I think you can continue the relationship, for now, making him and everyone else realizes that you're only trying to see how this will work out. It's possible he has a change of heart before an actual sex change. But you have to bear in mind that you might not enjoy sex with a guy if you're truly straight. You have to make him bear this in mind as well, so that if he eventually does a sex change and you find that you're not into him that way, then you can simply break off the relationship.
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ok so heres the deal, this girl named brandi keeps on hitting on my boyfriend. I confronted her about it a few times and shes just like no i used to like him but i really dont anymore. So then me and her started talking more and more, and it seemed like we were becoming friends. But then tuesday at the basketball game i was cheering and she was sitting in the stands with him i guess and he said that she tried to hold his hand. She said she wouldn't do that and that she really didn't like him like that. Im goign to confront her again but im not sure what to say this time. How can i make her stop? I have tried everything!!! please help! (link)
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i dont think this is as hard as it seems to you. Simply tell your guy to tell her flat out that he is not interested in her and that you are not comfortable with how she relates with you. Unless he is not all that serious about you. Good luck.
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