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ok i need long detailed answers for this one.... ive been in a relationship for a year and a half and im wondering some things. what is a relationship supposed to be like? how do you work out problems without getting pissed off/ frustrated? how do you have fun like u used to? thanks i will rate good for good answers!
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relationships are when you and him are happy. everyone has problems in there relationship so everyone is going to go through a fight or . its really kinda simple. if you keep fighting over the same thing than try to look at it his way , we all make mistakes every now and then .. and if you still think you are correct than try to get him calm and talk to him and try to get him to c it your way...the real answer is communication ... having fun like u used to?.... i am not to sure about that one try doing stuff you both find fun that you never done befor , try new things hope this helps
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Wow, this is the end all to beat all questions about relationships isn't it? Well here goes. Relationships are supposed to be what you make of them. In other words, you get out what you put in. Things don’t work themselves out on their own, you have to be willing to give and get. Relationships will never be finished, they are a work in progress, and there will always be disagreements. The trick is how you deal with them. It's normal to get pissed off or frustrated, but it’s how you deal with that, that will make or break things. The best advice I can give is to pick your battles. If something is REALLY important to you then, in a nice way, put your foot down. If it's more important to your significant other, then let it go. As far as having fun like you use to, this is the present moving into the future, so we try not to worry about the past. Instead of reminiscing about the good days gone, try to plan your days with things that you will both enjoy in the future so you have something to look forward to instead of back.
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Wow, 1 1/2 years is great! obviously your doing something right if you have been together for so long! My longest relationship was nowhere near as long as yours..but to me a relationship should consist of a balance of many areas... a balance of affection, your other interests like sports ..friends, and other stuff in your life. A healthy relationship should be one where the two of you are mostly happy ..in other words if your always arguing thats not good..but some arguements are bound to happen. when you do argue, try to keep calm and let him talk..let him say his side..then you express yourself..in the end kiss and make up about it ..or agree to disagree. its normal to get frustrated and pissed off..but to work something out and avoid frustration, try to just stay calm..walk away for a minute..etc.
how to have fun like you used to :
-go for a picnic in the park, amusement park, to the store,scenic walk, etc. think of something sifferent to do..a trip maybe..something different you will both enjoy. go outside and play tackle football, go to a football game, a drive, a walk, drive in, try something new! if you want..innbox me about both your interests and i can help you figure out more stuff to do.
:) hope i helped ya!
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