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Depression About My Crush?
Ok well I just started making steady progress with my crush of three years (i.e. talking to him, giving him donuts).
My problem is with my personal feelings. I'm always happy when he's around and stuff but when he leaves, sometimes I get really -depressed-.
For example, for the past three days we've been making up time for auto (we haven't ever had a class before but we had to make up time for the same teacher). We haven't been working together but we've been spending a lot of time in the same room, having conversations with teachers and other students.
Today, he shook the teachers hand to thank him for making up the time, got into his car and left. I got so sad at that moment. I feel so stupid because I know I'll see him next week but I couldn't shake off this awful feeling.
I still feel crappy. This has happened a few times. I wanted him to come back so badly. My friend started getting concerned and I'm getting concerned too because just the act of him leaving was enought to set me off.
Is this normal? I haven't heard of somebody feeling so low just because her crush went home. Is there something mentally wrong with me because I was happy all day and then he left and I'm like :(
Ok wow, that was long. Any help is appreciated <3
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That's pretty normal crush behavior. You shouldn't worry that it's abnormal or weird.
But you might want to give yourself a little emotional space from him. I know that that's hard, but it's not really healthy for your total emotional state to depend on whether or not he's around.
It's NORMAL, but it's not good for you. But there may not be much that you can do about it. If it helps, crushes do pass with time.
Oh, just a suggestion: since you've been crushing on him for three years, maybe you should ask him out? If he says no, that may help you to de-crush, and then (after a period of recuperation) you will be open to finding someone else, someone who can return your feelings. Heck, there might be someone out there who has a crush on YOU and you just didn't see it! :D
And of course, he might say yes.
Good luck!
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There's nothing wrong with you, you just like him a lot. BUT IF YOU BROUGHT HIM DONUTS AND HE DOESN'T EVEN AGNOLEDGE (SPELLED WRONG) YOU THEN THAT'S NOT RIGHT! That's just not right. I know it's hard, but try to substitute him with something, like candy. Works for me!
I love you,
The Waffler
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