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why is my boyfriend PRUDE!?!?!?
hey my name is chelsey and i am 13 years old. I have a boyfriend named Mike and we have been going out for to be three months. Well we're happy together and everything but we can only see eachother once a week because he lives in another town. So i would think that when i see him every Friday it would be special and he would be all over me. i mean he's nervous i think but it's been THREE MONTHS! we hold hands and stuff but when it comes to kissing during the movies or touching me he gets scared. maybe i'm young but i want him to do these things. Is this normal or how can i have him change? Please help me! i'll rate VERY high!
Thank you VERY much!
Much Love,
Chelsey<33
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One main thing that will help Mike relax is time. If he only sees you once a week, that means he might need half the date to even begin to relax. Mike also might be shy. This means that if he's more reserved, and doesn't see you much, it might take him months to feel really comfortable.
The other big thing that will help him relax is YOU. If in any way you are pushing him or making him feel uncomfortable about his shyness, this will probably only make him even LESS likely to kiss you. You could always initiate things - be the one to kiss him first - and see what happens.
It sounds like Mike is someone who really likes you for who you are, not what you can give him. While it can be frustrating to wait for him to catch up with you, at least you know you've got a genuinely nice guy.
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