Darby answered Thursday May 21 2009, 12:03 am: It sounds like you're not relaxed or comfortable. Take a deep breath and try to let all of your muscles relax. From your statement, it sounds like you're flexing your muscles (the way you do when you're trying not to pee). If you do that, it will push him out instead of allowing him to slide all of the way in. Make sure you're not constricting your muscles the next time you try to have intercourse with him. If you do and feel that you are completely relaxed but still have problems, try talking to your gynecologist.
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