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Well Lately my life has sucked big time i never have to myself between school and homework.. and all these guys i liked well they dont even talk to me anymore.. i just feel so lonely..and i dont really have anyone to talk to about this.. i just dont no what to do.. i have cut myself before...and i was lookin at this blade today and i really wanted to.. but i just didnt.. and i really think im going to end up doing it anyways i just dont no what to do.. im so confused i hate my life it is so stupid..plus this guy i really liked and i thought he rly loved me.. well i was talkin to him and he seems rly mean and i dont no if i want to be with him .. i dunno imma end up hurtin myself.. and i have nothing to do..HELP>>>
IM 14
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calm down. relax - do things for yourself. The world wont end without this guy right now. any how it seems you need to focus on yourself right now. I am also 14 (female, i'm assuming you are too) and things aren't going great for me. In fact, things suck. But we are young and things will look up. Plus the great thing about being this age is that you can always blame the hormones. And it's true, our hormones want nothing but to mess us up.
if you have good friends then talk to them. I'm sure they'll kick some sence into you (and i say this in the most loving way - because i've been there).
the one thing that you should NOT do is hurt your self, take up a hobby, just don't do it. I took up knitting for instance and it's great to take your mind off things.
things can only go up from here.
<3 kooka
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Well ... i think what you need to do is relax, you obviously dont do well under pressure, i know the feeling! The way you deal with your anxiety/stress is through cutting but what you need to do is something that will get out your anger, stress, anxiety, really any emotion you have pent up inside. What i do is write lists about everything the guys i like, the ones who i think like me, hw, anything really that needs remembering or needs to be let out. I've actually thought of cuttung myself but its not what i did instead i told my dad that i was stressed and having an anxiety attack and he just let me sit next to him and cuddle for like an hour, it sounds cheesey but it calms you down being next to someone you love and you know truly cares for you. Dont cut yourself again, a friend of mine did that and her parents realized how stressed and emotional her life was and they put her in a hospital, I havent seen her since (not scary i just mean that they moved her away from her friends). Please dont cut and try to release the emotions by writing or exercising ... it works much better, plus it isnt a health issue!
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