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hey there! i know this may be a very common question, and i apologize greatly in advance....
There is this guy that I really like who is one year older than me,and have realized it after he seemed to have felt the same way for me too. He was always next to me, and whenever he's around (because his sister and I are friends) it gets incredibly awkward. What is contradictory is that on his profile, it says that he wants to meet his "special girl", and said that "this beautiful girl was on page 86", indicating the school yearbook. I soon found that he liked this girl, a senior. I don't understand... Why does he say that he likes this girl, but is always trying to sit next to me, and stares at me, but looks away? Should I just forget it?
I am a 15/f, and he is 16/male.
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maybe he like both of ya. don't trip ova it if he spents his time wit you then he likes you
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Girl, forget it. Better yet, forget him. My motto today is don't waste your time. Be nice to him still, look at him when only necessary, but move on. Let me tell you what you already know, GUYS ARE EXCELLENT FLIRTS. That's all he's doing. He's flirting. Now there may be signs that he's getting jealous when you stop the attention that you're paying him, but all he's doing is flirting. My friend and I did that for two years. We flirted, touched each other hands, and etc. He even got jealous when I stopped paying him attention. BUT, I took the time to realize that we're only friends and that he and I were a big flirt. So, that's probably what you're going through. Be considerate to him, flirt a little but know that it's not going to work out. That it's not meant to be. Get over it honey, I know he was believable. Trust me, they all are.
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forget it. :) you obviously deserve better hunny. you deserve a guy who will look at you, and you alone. you desrve a guy who will be more than happy to show you off with his friends and family. you deserve a guy who doesnt simply flirt with you, but will be there for you through ups and downs. thats how i see it. i have been in that situation and it hurts ryt?... thats natural but it will pass soon. guys these age arent mature enough to handle a true lady. no, im not insulting the male species but thats the reality. :) hehe.. and for some reasons, i know LOTS of guys who do the same thing. they just like the feeling of having girls fall over them through flirting. hey, have fun also!! have fun flirting! play the game but do it your style!..take note, its only pure flirting. do attach it with feelings and emotions. have fun!
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