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okay so im a gurl and alot of guys think im hot but they never ask me out. when my friends ask them whats up with that.. they go i think shell say no and they are scared. but the thing is, i think i put this wall up and i dont no why. like i cant talk to guys i get all nervous and stuff so maybe the reason i make them think that i am to good for them is cuz im really scared myself. will i ever over come it beccause it drives me insane!!! and if i will over come this how?? please helpp!!
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If you are nervous about talking to guys, get to know them first before even thinking about a relationship. You have to be confident in who you are and able to be yourself without anyone else. Try going out with your friends and doing group activities like theme parks and coffee shops. If you are interested in one particular guy, do a lot of group activities with that person until you get to know them. The more you are around someone, the easier it gets to talk to them. Also, if they are around you more, they will begin to know you and know when they get that appropriate point when they can ask you out.
You want to be a friend to a guy before a girlfriend. If you are looking for just romantic passion, you will be disappointed in the times when it's not passionate. You want to be able to talk to a guy and carry on conversations with one if you want to see if you are compatible.
You will find that person, and I hope you will gain the confidence!
Hope that helps and hope everything works out!
-Charlotte
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