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best friends boyfriend
sorry this is long...
okay me and my friend ellie both liked this guy named neil but i liked him more (we agreed on that) and then after winter break i told neil i knew who liked him and he askd who and ellie had told me that i could tell him so i told him... two days later he asked her out... needless to say that my heart was completely broken and it was all my fault... but now that hes going out with her im stuck with the two of them and noone else... all the time!!! and everyone is always like "stop trying to steal neil" well the other day somehow it got out that i was still in love with him... but I managed to convince everyone that i didnt... but we always fight (me and neil) oveer the stupidest things and i hate it!!! I cant help it but I love him so much it makes me hate him... I hate how jealous i am .. what should I do? how can I get over this guy??!?!
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i've defintley been in this situation before and told the boy i liked that my best friend liked him and they went out, which left me totally heart broken like you. I think that your friend is also in fault because she knew how much you liked this guy so its also her fault, i think you need to let her know this && she needs to know that what she did was wrong .. after all she is supposed to be your best friend, i would sit down and talk to her, although it might be hard and she might get mad, she needs to know it.
i hope all is well and let me know what happens :) always here!
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Just, try to hang around different people then the two of them. Thats really messed up that your friend would agree to go out with him, after you already aggreed that you liked him more. You just need to stay away from him. If they ask you to go somewheres with them, just say you can't. Its good to find new people to hang out with. Take up a hobby or something that keeps your mind off of things. I'm sure you'll find someone knew. Good Luck. Hope I helped.
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You poor thing. That really does sound like a difficult situation for you.
Right let's get this straight first of all. You have every right to be heartbroken and jealous and upset and even if nobody else understands that, YOU need to understand it.
Now, if this guy KNEW you liked him and still went and asked your friend without saying anything to you, he's not worth the effort anyway as he clearly doesn't care who he hurts when going after what he wants.
With everyone slating you behind your back, I think you need to keep your distance from them for a while and maybe hang out with some other friends (preferably ones who won't date guys you care a lot for) to allow yourself time to get over him and the whole situation to cool down.
As for getting over this guy, I will say to you what I say to anyone in this situation. Sometimes, like when you have your heart broken, you just need time to wallow in your misery. Stay in your pyjamas for a few days, eat your weight in Ben and Jerry's ice cream and afterwards, dust yourself off, put a huge smile on (even if you don't feel like it yet) and go out and face the world. Most of all, remember that there is someone out there for EVERYONE. If he could treat you that way, he never deserved you in the first place.
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