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A guy likes me, I like him back, but he has a girlfriend
A guy told me he likes me, but he has a girlfriend. I don't think she knows that he likes me because they are still going out. My friends all think I hate him, because at first I actually did until I realized I liked him. I don't want to tell them because that would be another problem to deal with because I have bad stuff going on with my friends, and if I told them they would rub it in and probably call me a liar because I used to think badly of him. If I tell my mom she'll rub it in and tell the whole family. This guy is a year younger and a grade lower than me. His girlfriend and I are 13 and in the same grade and he is only 12. He is kind to me but nice to his girlfriend in a sexual way at times, but she doesn't seem to mind his behavior. I'm not sure what his behavior means, but I like him anyway. I think his girlfriend should know that he is flirting with me and that I am trying not to flirt with him, but I can only control my speech,not what's on my face. I'm too scared to talk to her or him about it, because everyone will be mad. I'm too scared to talk to my friends because I don't know which ones are real. Who should I talk to? Should I deal with it when I've figured things out with my friends? but that could take a year, and events probably won't allow me to wait that long to do something. If I need to talk to him, her or someone else, how do I tell them? What kind of person should I tell? Am I worried for nothing? Is this all really stupid because we're so young? I don't know if these questions can really be answered, so I really just need advice and opinions for the entire problem.
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Okay, first off, when I was your age, I liked a boy who was the same age as me, but he got held back, so it seemed like I liked a younger boy. I know how this feels. It's very confusing.
Secondly, you have to make sure he really likes you. He might be joking around with all that flirting. But, if he does, try talking to someone. TTry talking to him. He's probably the easiest person to talk to. Ask him why he likes you if he has a girlfriend. Maybe he's not with his girlfriend anymore. Maybe their just really good friends.
If you do talk to him, talk to his girlfriend too. Let both of them know so they can talk about it. If his girlfriend has a temper, or get angry, then just tell him to tell his girlfriend about it. Make sure she knows in a certain way.
If everything just turns out wrong, stop thinking about him. Just let it drop. Move on to someone else. He's not worth it if he already has a girlfriend. Besides, if he did go out with you, he would be cheating on you. And that will happen unless he doesn't have a girlfriend anymore. The best thing to do is talk to him.
Anyways, thanx for writing to me! Ask me anything anytime!
~Jazz~
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