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my friends are annoying
My friend told me you gave great advice and i truly need some. Alright, well my best friends are all into ghetto rap and gangster and all that crap that i hate. It feels like i have nothing in common wiht them anymore except like where we shop and stuff. It's sad cause these are my best friends but were growing apart because of MUSIC! I know it sounds stupid but its true, like theres nothing to talk about anymore and when i go over to there houses i have a horrible time and just want to go home. Please help me, i dont want to lose my best friends over this little situation.
signed,
rap is crap.
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well what kind of music do you listen to? maybe you can see if your friends will listen to that kind of music some times.
what dont you like about rap? do you like any rap?
i know a ton of people that dont like rap, but i love it. but i also like a ton of other types of music. i'll listen to anything. so maybe your friends are open to other types of music? try them. be like "hey, you should listen to .. .. it's so good!"
or you could talk to your friends. be like hey, i feel like we are kindof falling apart. is something going on?
it's natural for friends to fall apart. it happens all the time whether we want it or not. but you can hold on to your friend ship with them. and try and try to talk about toher things. like shopping (you said ya'll shop in the same place) boys/girls, what's going on in your life/in their life, family stuff.
friends fall drift apart from the stupidest things, and music will be a silly thing stop being friends with.
but you can try to get new friends, that's a really good thing to do. just dont dump your old friends.
that's what i'd do. get new friends, and keep the old ones. you can have more then one group of friends. the more, the better.
best of luck ♥
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