Ive been looking at you are column and you give great advice and i thought u might be able to anwser this one.. im 13/f and i weigh 170lbs yes i know im fat... but ive been losing a lot of weight.. but all my friends are tinylike there only like 100 pounds at the most and i feel so selfconcence(SP) around them and like i feel like they talk about my weight when im not around(but i know they dont) i just feel like really fat... is there anyway that i cant just be not selfconcense around them and i can just be me without feeling fat.... im already on a really good diet so you dont have to tell me to get on a diet.. i need mental help on this 1 ...O ya and since im 'bigger' guys dont like 'like' me they think im just a friend... how do i change their perspective without looking like a slut??. :'(
Thanks so much,
Weightwatcher
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Health? GoodAdvice24 answered Tuesday January 17 2006, 6:16 pm: Ok well first of all be yourself and dont worry about your weight. If they are your real friends they wont care how much you weigh or what you look like. And eventually you will have someone special come into your life but things just take time. Guys arent everything trust me but I know how you feel. Just try to make yourself look good and make yourself feel good...(that doesnt mean looking like a slut. Hope I helped.
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