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i think i am ready
how do you know when you are really ready for sex? and how do you know if he is the right guy?
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This may not be what you're wanting to hear, but I figure you'd appreciate all opinions here. I've always believe that you're not "ready for sex" until you can comfortably support your child on your own..
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Dear Unsure,
Sex is one of the most amazing things you can do in a relationship. If you're really ready for sex, most often than not, you wouldn't question it. But otherwise, make sure you're really in love with the guy, depending on your age you could be too young and be in puppy love. Also, don't do it just because everyone else is, do it because you think it's time for you two to do it in your relationship. If you're not sure, talk about it with your partner. If you're in the commited relationship that you think you are, he'll help you with the decision, not just urge you to because he wants it. If you want to know if he's the right guy, ask yourself, do you have any doubts... do you feel like maybe there's more out there or do you see yourself with him, do you see yourself not looking to date anyone else... sometimes there's no answer really to know if he is the right guy, sometimes there's just that feeling... And remember, always use a condom, safe sex is the only way, especially if you're not sure. Birth Control Pills may work well against pregnancy, but they do not prevent STD's.
-That Advice Lady
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It's a tough one, and the answer lies deep within you. But basically my opinion is that if you have to ask, then you're not ready. I think that when you're truly ready and it is the right guy you will just KNOW. I don't know how because it hasn't happened to me yet, but I think there is some sort of outside force that tells us when the right time is. I know that sounds wacko, but you'll feel it someday and know what I mean.
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if you have to ask yourself that, then your obviously not ready. BUT i don't have the right to tell you that, because only you know when you're ready. trust me, you'll know it. dont let people tell you the answer, because it varies. think about your opinion on sex and if you want to put up with the responsibility. read facts about stds, pregnancy, etc and maybe that'll help you decide. ♥adina
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